5. Maturing


Recently, I discovered a very interesting statistic… In the United States alone, there are 1, 1 million people between 26 and 40 years old, who are still virgins! I don’t know what percentage of those are men, but let’s say it’s 50%. Perhaps, even, this data is questionable - if those answering the poll weren’t honest in their answers. There could be twice as many virgins out there!

What seems to be wrong with you?

I think the fear of pain and pregnancy can be ruled out, as can the reasons that men 26-40 years old are still wondering how to lose virginity. I think that in 90% of cases, the inability to find a sexual partner is social inadequacy - fear of approaching women can repress one of our strongest biological urges.

Who is to blame?

Well, I think I know the answer to that. Do you remember the older generation saying, ‘Back in the days when men were men - and women were women’? Yes, as you know, earlier cultures had a ritual of initiation, when the boys and girls were reaching adulthood. I don’t say we need to return to those days, but men in our society are getting old, yet not maturing. Manhood is in crisis, unfortunately. Now, we have 40-year old men facing the issue of losing their virginity! Their fathers taught them how to fix cars, or how to catch a ball, but almost never how to get a girlfriend.

As I said earlier, you’re not one of the ‘naturals’, but luckily you can learn. It’s never too late to stop being a boy - and become a functioning adult. It won’t be easy, but it’s something you just have to do! You must escape the comfort zone of your boyhood and accept the downside of manhood, so you can appreciate the good things, too.

I’ll teach you how to develop your personality and psychology in that direction. I’ll teach you the techniques - and how to get the girls, in the process. It’s time to lose your virginity. Get ready to grow up!

Sincerely Yours,